Relationships can get troublesome under the most favorable circumstances, however when relationships are being in charge things can turn poisonous. While a good relationship depends on shared regard and trust for each other. But sometimes one of the two tends to extend a more “in control and in charge” aura, sometimes without even figuring it out. Here are 10 signs that will let you know if you are in a controlled relationship.
#10 Assumed To Be Guilty
One of the greatest things every successful relationship has is their partner always believe you are innocent unless otherwise. And if you are in a controlled relationship your partner will never believe your innocence no matter how much you prove it.
#9 Often Embarrassed In Front Of Family And Friends
The greatest strength of any relationship is laughter no matter how what your condition is. But if your humor or laughter comes from mockery not only is it disheartening to you but you are in a controlled relationship.
#8 Being Isolated From Your Friends And Family
If you are losing contact with your friends and family just because of your partner then he is not the one for you. And believe it or not but you are being controlled.
#7 Your Partner Wants To Know Everything About You
One thing that partner should trust and not freat from is your past or your past relationship. If you are being asked tons of question about your past it is a signal your partner intends to keep a control on your past life. Stay tuned for more on the next page…
#6 Your Long-Term Beliefs Are Belittled
The thing that keeps a person down to earth and not turns into an insane person is his ideology. If anyone tries to change your ideology or your personality they are not for you and they will try to control you.
#5 Supposed To Earn Love
The thing that you don’t need to pay for or prove the world is the love it comes with no ifs or buts. If anyone tells you different they are not for you.
#4 Everything You Say And Do Is Kept In Mind For Future Reference
In a real and perfect relationship, you don’t keep any scorecard of your partner. Instead, you forget their mistake and try to leave it behind. If it is not happening in your relationship it is a concern. Stay tuned for more on the next page…
#3 Privacy Is Seldom Respected
One thing that is not healthy for any relationship is not trusting your partner. If your Bf/Gf stalk you or checks you on a social platform or spy on you, check your messages. They are definitely not for you and try to get away from them as soon as possible.
#2 Made To Doubt Yourself
One thing that a controlling partner will do is isolate you from your sense of reality as well. Making you question your every calls and judgment.
#1 Physical Abuse
When plain words and all resorts fail a controlling person often tends to physical abuse. It’s hard but truth people like this do exist in this world. Get away from people like them they don’t deserve you at all.