Think your bond with your significant other is Strong? Check to see you’re not doing any of these destructive behaviors. When people are in love will Never follow these things in Relationship.
1. Keep Secrets
Honesty is the key for A successful relationship. If you don’t trust each other then it’s not going to work at all. Being open is essential to stay healthy and happy with your partner.
2. Rush Things
The beginning of a relationship is always awkward. It’s a feeling out process. Sure, it’d be nice to skip ahead to the good part where you can just cuddle, eat pizza and watch Netflix, but you need to work your way up to that.
3. Expect It To Be Easy
There’s a lot you need to know about being in a long-term relationship. First of all, it’s going to be work. It’s not easy, but if it’s healthy, then it’s worth it.
4. Focus On The Past
You can’t change the past. The Past is past, Leave it behind. All you can do is learn from it and move on. If you can’t move on, you won’t be able to take anyone with you.
5. See Past Relationships As Failures
This is a perfect example of moving on from the past. It’s sad it had to end, but it ended for a reason. Learn from your mistakes so they don’t repeat in your next relationship. While your feelings may be hurt, that person helped you grow and helped you ultimately find someone you’ll be happier with.
6. Talk When They Should Listen
Communication is vital in making your relationship work. If you’re only trying to explain your own emotions, you won’t understand theirs. Listen to what’s going on with them. You’ll save each other a lot of grief in the long run.
7. Hide Who They Are
Nobody is perfect. Stop pretending to be. If they don’t love you anymore because of it, then they weren’t right for you to begin with.
8. Hold Grudges
Again, Nobody is perfect. We all make mistakes. Forgiveness is a virtue. If you can’t let something go, then it’s time to let them go.
9. Take The Relationship For Granted
Sometimes when you’ve been with someone for so long everything feels comfortable and easy. But just because they’re here now doesn’t mean they’ll always be here. Give them a reason to stay, and tell them how much you appreciate them for who they are and what they do.
10. Show Up Only When Times Are Good
Being a partner to someone means being there when times are good, but also when times are rough. You should be able to help them back up, and not judge them for falling down. You’ll want someone to do the same for you some day.
11. Fake Their Feelings
This is just a temporary solution that will get worse, not better, over time. If something’s wrong, say so. They’ll already know something’s wrong, even subconsciously by the way you sleep.
12. Expect The Relationship To Solve Their Problems
If you’re not happy, bringing someone else on board won’t solve your problems, it’ll compound them. Be happy with yourself, then you can be happy with someone else who’ll love you for you. No matter how weird you may be. Hey, we all have our own weird things we do in relationships.